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Stop whining bitches,ur man is a dog and thats that, get with it or get over him, cause im gonna mess with married men becausi they are convienient.

DON'T MARRY A MAN OLDER THAN YOU.INSECURITY SETS IN WHEN HE GETS OLDER AND YOU STILL LOOK YOUNG.

Excellent movie - very thought provocative. It really captures the differences between married and single people. Bravo to Chris Rock for making this movie - it really captures the reality of the day-to-day struggle of mariage in america. Allot of people could learn from watching this film since it really shows the degrees of an emotional affair and where it leads to. Again great job to Chris Rock.

I agree with most of the comments and disagree too. First, I do think women and men shouldn't blame the person their mate is sleeping with for the cheating.Men and women alike are hoes and will sleep with anyone who will give it up quick.It all seems that some men cheat because his wife didn't do such and such,that complete BS to me because I feel like the men that are cheating are not delivering like they use to or insecure about themselves.Dont even get me started on the women but I will give the women the benefit of the doubt some dont know the men status and some of the married men are such hounds they wont leave the ladies alone still no excuse.Also, the potential cheater might not know that the person their about to sleep with are in a fairy tale marriage, if thats the case, why are they considering another? Society has made it okay to have affairs and not take relationships seriously, dont believe me? Look at hollywoods track record and jennifer lopez,angeline jolie, brad pitt and liz taylor.I think God is looking down with tears in his eyes at the mockery of marriage today,Lord forgive us all.

I agree with most of the comments and disagree too. First, I do think women and men shouldn't blame the person their mate is sleeping with for the cheating.Men and women alike are hoes and will sleep with anyone who will give it up quick.It all seems that some men cheat because his wife didn't do such and such,that complete BS to me because I feel like the men that are cheating are not delivering like they use to or insecure about themselves.Dont even get me started on the women but I will give the women the benefit of the doubt some dont know the men status and some of the married men are such hounds they wont leave the ladies alone still no excuse.Also, the potential cheater might not know that the person their about to sleep with are in a fairy tale marriage, if thats the case, why are they considering another? Society has made it okay to have affairs and not take relationships seriously, dont believe me? Look at hollywoods track record and jennifer lopez,angeline jolie, brad pitt and liz taylor.I think God is looking down with tears in his eyes at the mockery of marriage today,Lord forgive us all.

I AM IN LOVE WITH A MARRIED MAN. IT WAS NOT MY INTENTIONS TO FALL FOR HIM. WE STARTED OUT AS FRIENDS. WE TALKED ABOUT EVERYTHING TOGETHER. I TRULY UNDERSTAND HE IS DEVOTED TO HIS FAMILY NOR DO I EXPECT HIM TO LEAVE HIS WIFE FOR ME. I DO NOT WANT THAT TO HAPPEN. HE ALSO LOVES ME. I TRULY BELIEVE THIS IN MY HEART. I JUST ENJOY THE LITTLE TIME I GET TO SHARE WITH HIM. I AM SORRY FOR HURTING HIS WIFE THIS WAY, BUT LOVE IS LOVE!!PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE ABOUT THIS SITUAION.

The difference between romantic love and companionable love is that romance comes and goes but friendship lasts forever. One can have both, but if the lines of communication shuts down ,then so does the marriage. I asked my parents what made your marriage last so long. They said we never forgot we were a couple. We were a couple before you kids came a long and never lost sight of that fact. We set aside time for eachother no matter how short the time every day. They kept their love alive by working at it and never took eachother for granted. It can be done.

Single people have affairs (whether it be one night or one year)with married people for various reasons. No it is not right and there is no excuse that one or the other can give that makes it right but the reality of it is that it does happen. In todays society, everyone is looking for the easy way out. We are selfish, self centered, and want to be in control. We make decisions on "the moment" rather than looking at the consequences of our actions. When confronted with the situation head on, the excuse often given is, "It was a mistake" or "if you step up your game at home i wouldn't be out there". The truth of the matter is that it is not a mistake because you knew what you were doing when you did it. It was a conscience choice(especially when it happens over and over again) and you are just sorry because you got caught. It is not a matter of anyone stepping up their game either. This is just a way of shifting the blame from you(the cheater) to the other person. You have now not only gotten caught but you have hurt your spouse and the other person involved. The reality is that the cheating person has some internal issues ranging anywhere from insecurities to sexual addictions that they are not dealing with. People who are insecure "act out" in various ways. They may cheat, be depressed, drink, smoke, use drugs, emotionally abuse or even mentally abuse others. When they drink, smoke, or do drugs they are actually drowing in the depression however when they lash out by cheating and/or being mentally/physically/emotionally abusive they psychologically think they are lifting their self esteem. They feel in control, wanted/desired. Those that truly have a sexual addiction are not addicted to the actual sex but they are addicted to the orgasm and the thought of reaching that orgasm with various people. Reality is all of those scenerios are short term fixes and this type of behavior will continue over and over until something drastic happens. This could be the spouse catching them, the spouse or person on the "side" getting hurt (emotionally, physically, or mentally), an unplanned pregnancy, or even someone if not all parties involved catching a Sexual Transmitted Disease. It is time that everyone grow up and be accountable to yourself and to your spouses. Love yourself enough to not settle for being number 2 through whatever, or having the mentality that a man will be a man. Love yourself enough to demand respect from others and recognize when it's time to move on. Relationships whether marriage or courting stage require work. No outside person can tare your home apart, only you and the person in the relationship can. Just like the seasons, people change and especially with age or as the years go by. Take the time to grow with them instead of growing away from them and then using a cop-out excuse as your reason for doing something you did to possibly destroy your relationships.
Now to the single person, don't settle. It is often quoted that if the person did it to the last mate then they will do it to you. I don't completely agree with that statement so i choose to say if a person did it to their mate, then they are highly capable to do it to you. Every situation and relationship is different so it may not happen to you but it is highly possible to happen. Some of you may desire married indiviuals because of past experiences and your unwillingness to trust again, to love again, and maybe you just want to be single but have a companion that is "safe" or only sleeping with you. Well News Flash, if they have a spouse they are definitely sleeping with the spouse and they are not safe because you don't know who else they are sleeping with or if and who their mate is sleeping with. Secondly, love is a powerful thing so ask yourself what will you do when/if you fall in love with the married person? History will repeat itself and you will untimately end up the one hurt in the end. Don't put yourself through this taking risk on people who can't be accountable to you. Don't gamble on someone already involved, gamble on the single person and don't be afraid of change.

If you a dating another womans husband, someday another woman will date ur husband.
After all there is saying that "What goes around comes around

I've Never been married to my Wife. After six children and thirty one years of marriage, I'm still married to my Bride. I see her today, the same way I saw her on our Wedding Day. I love her the same way that Adam loved Eve, like she's the only other person on Earth. When you see your mate that way, it's easy not to look past them.

The world has gone mad and Chris Rock, along with the people commenting on this site and watching his movie and movies like this, are the proof. People who think they want things that they don't have are the people who aren't completely happy with themselves and life. Nothing will ever be satisfying for those kinds of people... It's not about the other side of the grass being greener, it's about them perceiving it that way and how they look at the world around them. The people who are happy in life are the people who know what they have and are happy with it, grateful for it and are the ones who see life for what it really is. For every little thing you think you don't have, there is something you do have that you aren't appreciating. For every thing you think you need, there is something that comes with it that you aren't considering. Men and women alike look outside their relationships to find that thing they're missing from their life without looking at themselves first. They think that one affair will make them feel better but it doesn't... It just ends up being more complicated and out of control then what their original situation was. They don't realize the fact they need to work on themselves first and work with their partner before they consider adding a third party to the mix. The women who mess around with married men are just as empty inside as the men who are fooling around with them. They think they want what other women have... But the reality of it is, they don't know what they want... If they really wanted that commitment and security, they'd start from scratch and work for it the way the wife did. There are no short-cuts to happiness and the people who think there are these magical little short-cuts are the ones who will never be happy. When a marriage fails... It's both the man and the woman's fault. The women stop doing all the things that made their man fall inlove with them in the first place and men stop being the men they used to be. People don't seem to realize a marriage is a continuous effort and just because you got the final commitment doesn't mean it can't be taken away. You have to work just as hard, if not harder to keep a marriage going as you do to keep a relationship going. Too many women think that once they have a man, that's it... They don't have to keep trying to impress them because they have them. That mindset is what leads to them losing their husband... Same goes for men. They think that now they've taken that final step and they don't have to go that extra mile to make their woman happy but they do... And they always will. The people who think marriage isn't hard and a constant effort are the ones who shouldn't get married and the people who think it takes more than just the two of you and that commitment to each other's happiness are the ones who turn marriage in to a mockary. You don't need flings or flirting or therapists or get-aways to make a marriage work... You just need to be the best person you can be and constantly strive to be the best wife or husband you can be. Listen to your partner, do what they ask of you without hesitation and if it's something you just can't do then find a compromise... It doesn't always have to be one way or the other. Marriage is about that happy medium, you just have to figure out what needs to be done and what needs to change to find it. Ladies, don't stop buying the sexy underwear and doing all those kinky little things your man loves... And men, don't stop telling your woman how important she is to you and how beautiful you think she is because sometimes... All it takes is a few little words to make your woman fall inlove with you all over again. Marriage is a huge responsibility that should be taken seriously... And if you're not going to work to keep it then you shouldn't be jumping in to it.

You know...the best thing Chris said is...it should be that the two people
who are married...are nice to each other...because then it becomes them
against the messed up world...not them feeling messed up.
If you can consistently go home at night...and there is a clean home...kids that
have been watched over... meals...and a mate with an urge for a bootie
call...you are one lucky dude. Keep it real Chris...and much luck.

i think what he is saying the reality of being married. What married women is to be loved in return by their husband, and dont take commitment if ur not prepared for it. Life is such a blessing, and we must do our own part as a married person. Its hard being a "perfect" person, or a couple, but what importsnt is you can see that ur partner is trying too hard to please you and make the best of her to make her/his partner happy. the epitome of "happy ever after" is that reality, for nobodys perfect, there are trilas, but in the end of the line,just be good, and everything falls into the right places.

THE RING CHANGES MOST WOMEN
Have you ever thought how woman change after they have the wedding band on. I have eight aunts and each of them changed after their big day. Here is an example of two of them.
Aunt 1. Prior to marriage she dressed to kill, she shopped for her fiance and she went out to dinner and took trips with him. She now has three kids and all I see her do is run away from her family. She always has a get away (never including her husband) and finding a baby sitter is no excuse. She now dresses as though she shopped in the dump and only dresses seductive when she is flying away.
Aunt 2. She worked - now all of a sudden after the ring she wants to be a housewife because she feels a working woman can't raise her kids properly. She uses the 'my mother didn't work' line. I don't think she knows how much my uncle doesn't like it but he tells all of the other men in the family that when he met her she was so independent and now she doesn't mind being dependent.
I am a female - I have being dating for sometime and I often find myself doing stuff that I know I shouldn't do. Things I did when we first started dating I stopped doing; and my guy has never changed. Ladies remember that there is always a vulture out there trying to capture your man. 'Another woman's trash is another woman's treasure'. So be true to yourself and treat your man the way you want to be treated. I find that when I go the extra mile - he tries to out do me...... It's always the thought that counts.....

Marriage is hard! I know they say couples should always compromise, but no doubt the damn ones are the ones that compromise.
Married men think their wife is always the cause of the family problems
What men forget is that the woman, they married started off by being sexy and the sex was all interesting then, the man starts telling you how his tired. Then lack of satisfaction in sex, Lack of division of labour with house hold chores, with the kids, no help at all apart from the constant remainder of i go to work and make money for the family.
My ideal man would be one who sees sexy women and looks the opposite direction, one who doesnt stare at all at women, one who can tell when a woman is trying to flirt with him and say no, or tell her to back off.(this can be yor own sister/friend / nanny etc -just good at flirting with any man, this can lower your spirits) one who helps with house work. Etc ounce all this is accomplished we can sit down together have some wine and watch a commedy and may be i could get a turn on for sex. But a man who wont appreciate any work you have done, one minute sex and dozes off, no help with the kids, no adventure is a nonono! men please remember we used to be sexy but you succeded in putting us down.
In brief we need a " sexy, hot,action man in bed, helping hand and one who does flirt with anyone at all" and guess what we shall all be happy.
Oh another thing have you ever thot of bringing cleaners to the house and they clean the whole house iron do all the laudry and see how much sex you will get from your wife! remeber keep costs low, as you could be remainded of wastage of savings. GOOD LUCK and pray!

If a broad can trick my man..Then he's the sucka...I have been married for 12 years since I was 19. I am 31 now and I say if women want to get with a "married man" and he falls for her, he wasn't your from the beggining with his weak ass. Yes, you may be right women look the weak husbands but I guess if I could get all the lavish things in life and don't have to deal with him 24/7 she's doing good.I guess that when its the wifes problem.But damn I hope you know you will be lonely on on the Hoildays cause a father would spend it with his family.
Such is life...is it ever fair?

for me single women who keep on going with married men are most likely sluts especially when they already knew the men's status.ca't they control thier selves???im sorry but i just dont have respect for them.how did thier mother raised them?

Being in love with a married man is very sad.. sometimes people dont set out to be unfaithful, it just happens. Often people love their longterm partners but they are not "in love" anymore - they exist like brother and sisters. Life is too short to stay your whole life in a marriage simply out of duty - sometimes people just fall in love with someone else - thats life.

Chris i think you must have been a woman in a past life! I have never heard a man with those views. If you could be cloned the world would be a better place. People risk their marriages every day by being selfish. They're kids suffer and it's wrong. Men who cheat would not like to know their wives could be doing the same thing. If people put as much effort into the marriage as they do fooling around the divorces may decrease. Television and Internet have become a factor in these problems. Every day you turn on the televison and internet, butts start popping up all over the screen, secret dating services for married people, music videos that are taking the innocense out of our kids. If someone did something about what we are seeing everyday on television and internet people may find some morels to live by again.

"People want what they can't have"

The grass is not greener on the other side, you just forget to look down at how green your own grass is. People need to see what they have, instead of what they want.

Maybe the married man wants his cake and eat it too! They tell the other woman all the problems and don't even try to talk to the wife. Then when he gets busted he tells her "I never had any intentions of leaving you." And you know why?? Because he's still like a little boy! He knows what he is doing is wrong,but he went on and did it anyway. How would he feel if the wife had a fling or a affair?? It wouldn't go over very easy with him would it.

WOMEN STOP BLAMING WOMEN FOR MARRIED MEN CHEATING A WOMAN CAN'T MAKE A MARRIED MAN CHEAT WITH HER THAT IS SOMETHING HE WANT TO DO SOMETIMES MEN TELL THE OTHER WOMAN HE ISN'T MARRIED THEN SHE FIND OUT LATER ON DOWN THE ROAD BLAME THE MARRIED MAN HIS THE ONE THAT IS MARRIED HE HAS A BRAIN IN HIS HEAD HE SHOULD THINK WITH HIS HEAD AND NOT WHAT IS BETWEEN HIS LEGS HIS WIFE AT HOME HAS A CHOICE SHE DON'T HAVE TO PUT UP WITH IT SHE SHOULD DECIDE TO STAY AROUND ARE TO LEAVE IT ALONE YOU DON'T HAVE TO PUT UP WITH A MAN CHEATING ON YOU THATS WHY ITS A SUCH THING CALLED DIVORCED DIVORCED DIVORCED DO IT ARE STOP TALKING ABOUT THE MAN AND THE MARRIAGE [PUT UP WITH THE CHEATING] GET A DIVORCE DO WHAT YOU GOT TO DO.

It takes two to tangle I think a man who is married should realize he has a wife at home. It is not the other woman fault that that man is cheating on his wife he made those vows to his mate not the other women so he should respect his wife enough to say no to outside relationship. IF A MAN CHEAT ON HIS WIFE MOST OF THE TIME SOMETHING IS ALL RIGHT AT HOME THEY JUST WANT TO BE DOGS MEN LIKE TO CONTROL THE RELATIONSHIP AND WHEN THE FEEL THEY CAN'T THEY GO OUT AND MESS AROUND ITS LIKE GETTING EVEN WITH THERE PARTNER IF I CAN'T CONTROL YOU I WILL JUST GO OUT AND CHEAT but if his wife cheat its a big problem women cheat for a reason lack of communication, someone tryinging to control her,a man doing want he want to do in the marriage and she can't, mental abuse physical abuse,no respect,name calling, she can do everything possible to make everything rigt and man will never act right. so when a women step out the house on her husband shes not really looking for sex shes looking for a good friend someone who will consider her feeling and treat her like a women wants to be treated. It take a woman a long time in her marriage to decide to cheat.when a woman cheat believe me its a reason for it a woman will not just mess up a happy home just to be doing it believe me

if you mess with someone who is married and you know it you're a ho man or woman. and if you were really in love with them you'd have enough respect for them not to f**k up their marriage. if they had any merit to them they wouldnt cheat on their spouse. if they're cheating on them they're really going to give you respect.......riiiggghhht. just dont do it. there are thousands of single people to play and have fun with.

cheating is wrong. that is a no brainer but how do you intend to stop married men from cheating thats the question right there. making them less appealing to single women surely is not the answer ... rather we should make single women less available to married men. women, do that thing you all used to know too well- play hard to get and make the chase disturbingly long and difficult this way you are sure you know who and what you are getting yourself into and in the process killing the convenience that married men are looking for whether it be for emotional ego or sexual gratification

Who is this shmuck?

"marrige is simple" ... bullsh*t!!!

I have been the other woman and I have been the woman. Neither is pretty. It is very painful to be in love with a man who is married. At the time he seems like exactly what you will need to make you happy. You go around making all types of stupid compromises to be with him and quess what. He may eventually wind up with you, but he will almost without a doubt do the exact same thing he has done with you and to you with and too someone else. My advice is if you meet a man who is truly engaging and all that stuff. Take some time real time to get to know him. More often than not he is married. If he is willing to engage in some frisky business with you a stranger just so he can be gratified, knowing that this will cause problems with his family, what will he be willing to do to diregard your feelings, when that time comes? I have been through the wringer with my ex. He was all that and a bag of chips. But he was incrediby abusive and selfish when I needed him most.

Marriage is Simple.
Either you have it in you to make a promise and keep it, or you don't.
The responsibility is yours, take hold of it and be proud.
For those who do, these are the people we should choose as our heroes.
These are the people of strong character and moral fiber that need to be honored & displayed in front of society as the righteous example.

For those who can't or won't keep the promise of marriage, Stay Out.
Allow Darwin to cull you from the herd; this act of self sacrifice will benefit us all, now and. the generations to come.

As for me, I am.

Religion and fairy tales are why most relationships, especially marriages fail. We are still an evolving species. Hence our desires to be attracted to others and our willingness to engage in multiple intimate encounters will never go away. It's great to find that one true love and want to live happily ever after but the truth is that long term relationships get routine and boring. Having a nice new piece of lovin on the side acts as a catalysts to our souls in more ways than most are willing to admit. Fall in love, get married, but don't forget you are human and don't beat yourself up about sharing yourself with others as long as you can do it maturely, healthy, and most of all openly. I've been married for 12 years and believe me, a don't ask don't tell, don't make no other babies with an always wear a helmet policy keeps it strong.

Single/Divorced People (Both Men and Women)

The way I see it is that nowadays, no one wants to be commited. People, in their day to day busy lives, don't have time for a relationship. It's more like a wham, bam, thank you mam kind of deal. Don't get me wrong, people want to be in some kind of a relationship with a person from the opposite sex, they just don't want have to commit and feel obligated to be with that one person, in other words they want to feel free to keep their options open. I find that especially in divorced people, whom may or may not have children, tend to take this path. I guess from being in a commited relationship for so many years they feel that they can now spread their wings and fly and be free to do whatever, whenever and not be tied down with any strings. Once a divorce is finalized the strings are cut and the person is able to break free to venture into new and exciting things that they may not have known appealed to them.

I believe if a marriage really is a good one (i.e. couple is able to communicate their wants and needs to each other freely) and they truly love each other and swore to honor that commitment, then there is absolutely NO reason for either of them to look elsewhere. If you're going to fool around, then what's the point of getting married? Stay single and do what you're gonna do with OTHER SINGLE PEOPLE! At least you wouldn't have a marriage holding you together.

It's always a case of the grass looking greener on the other side...or the other person's ice being colder, whatever cliche you wanna use. I absolutely agree that the reason why someone would knowingly cheat with a person who is married is that they really don't want to be bothered with commitment issues. I can't believe that they would actually fall for the line that the married person is going to eventually leave their spouse for him/her. If they do leave, chances are that it won't be for them - but for another reason entirely.

We men, need to be real men. A real man only needs one woman. Our wife should have all that we have to give. There shouldn't be anything left for another woman. If you feel your woman isn't sexy any more, tell her to step it up, help her out. We need to communicate with each other.

Every word displayed is so true. I can not dispute a single word..Gary

Married men are at fault not the women who date them. Yea maybe the woman knows what she's doing is wrong but she might actually love him. The man shouldn't go after other women or let other women come on to him. He has the power to say to himself this is wrong.

No relationship is permanent except that of direct blood (kids, mothers, fathers). By the time couples get past the first few years, it a matter of convenience and common conversation. Relationships lasting longer than 5 or 10 years are merely friends who had some passion for eachother at one time. If the relationship lasts until the kids are out of the house and on their own, all the better, but it's good to be realistic.

But, what if the woman at home is not so great? I see the blanket assumption that the woman at home is a saint that always takes care of the house, loves and takes care of the husband and family and I can tell you that's not always the case. Sometimes the man is the only part of the marriage that is actually working.

What if the couple is not together(do you really think I believe that-anywho). Perhaps, they are in the relationship because it is cheaper to keep(for the both). And they both are doing their own thing. It does not matter what you have or what you look like or can do. If a man does not want or is not romanticly attractive to you there is no time to waste (next).

I say men are dogs especially married ones and women who cheat with married men are bitches ie female dogs.

As usual Chris Rock tells it like it is in all his humor. Single women are attracted to married men because they have proven that they love another woman enough to commit to her. In a way single women envy the relationship and like the thrill of being able to take from it, even if it's temporary.

Then once they get the man and have power over him to tell his wife...let the games begin.

chris rock is the bomb he really knows how to do this sh@t!!!!!

MAYBE SOME SINGLE WOMEN JUST WANT TO HAVE FUN WITH A MARRIED MAN, NOT NECESSARILY FALLING FOR HIM OR WANTING SOMETHING MORE THAN JUST AN AFFAIR. SOME WOMEN WITH COMMITMENT ISSUES (OR NOT) MAY THINK A MARRIED OR UNAVAILABLE GUY IS CONVENIENT, HE WON'T BUG HER AS MUCH AND WON'T ASK TOO MUCH OF HER TIME. WORKS GREAT FOR INDEPENDENT, SUCCESSFUL, BUSY WOMEN. I AGREE IT'S IMMORAL TO MESS WITH A MARRIED MAN BUT HEY, DON'T BLAME ON THE GIRL, SHE'S GONNA GO AFTER WHAT SHE WANTS/NEEDS, IT'S UP TO THE GUY (OR WHOEVER IN A RELATIONSHIP DOING THE CHEATING) TO BE RESPONSIBLE FOR HIS OWN ACTION AND NOT TO FALL FOR THE TEMPTATION. HE SHOULD SAY TO HIMSELF OR TO HER "I GOT A GREAT WOMAN AT HOME, I AIN'T GONNA FALL FOR THIS".

Single women...STOP GOING AFTER MARRIED MEN BECAUSE THE GUY YOU WANT WON'T COMMIT TO YOU! Leave good marriages alone! And if the married guy is after you, then just say...NO!