Same goes for men. They think that now they've taken that final step and they don't have to go that extra mile to make their woman happy but they do... And they always will. The people who think marriage isn't sexy lingerie hard and a constant effort are the ones who shouldn't get married and the people who think it takes more than just the two of you and that commitment to each other's happiness are the ones who turn marriage in to a mockary. You don't need flings or flirting or therapists or get-aways to make a marriage work.sexy costumes You just need to be the best person you can be and constantly strive to be the best wife or husband you can be. Listen to your partner