I agree with most of the comments and disagree too. First, I do think women and men shouldn't blame the person their mate is sleeping with for the cheating.Men and women alike are hoes and will sleep with anyone who will give it up quick.It all seems that some sexy lingerie men cheat because his wife didn't do such and such,that complete BS to me because I feel like the men that are cheating are not delivering like they use to or insecure about themselves.Dont even get me started on the women but I will give the women the benefit of the doubt some dont know the men status and some of the married men are such hounds they wont leave the ladies alone still no excuse.Also, the potential sexy costumes cheater might not know that the person their about to sleep with are in a fairy tale marriage, if thats the case last so long. They said we never forgot we were a couple. We were a couple before you kids came a long and never lost sight of that fact. We set aside time for eachother no matter how short the time every day. They kept their love alive by working at it and never took eachother for granted. It can be done.