i think what he is saying the reality of being married. What married women is to be loved in return by their husband, and dont take commitment if ur not prepared for it. Life is such a blessing, and we must do our own part as a married person. Its hard being a "perfect" person, or a couple, but what importsnt is you can see that ur partner is trying too hard to please you and make the best of her to make her/his partner happy. the epitome of "happy ever after" is that reality, for nobodys perfect, there are trilas, but in the end of the line,just be good, and everything falls into the right places.