Once you realize the man you THouGhT you were marrying, is not that man, and who he truly is the passion sometimes fades. I never thought I would feel the way I do about sex. NEVER. As much as I had the apetite for sex, I thought people were crazy for not wanting to do it alot once married. But, bills, babies, and reality can certainly stash that passion. And, let me also say that once a man has cheated, it's hard to imagine doing most if not certain sexual acts with him again. I could probably tolerate sex again, but I'm not sure how free I would be with my emotions. That affects the entire experience. Unfortunately, to open up your emotions with sex - even with your husband means vulnerability. I could probably do him, but I don't see me ever letting him inside my soul as I did before. Sad right? But true.
Once you realize the man you THouGhT you were marrying, is not that man, and who he truly is the passion sometimes fades. I never thought I would feel the way I do about sex. NEVER. As much as I had the apetite for sex, I thought people were crazy for not wanting to do it alot once married. But, bills, babies, and reality can certainly stash that passion. And, let me also say that once a man has cheated, it's hard to imagine doing most if not certain sexual acts with him again. I could probably tolerate sex again, but I'm not sure how free I would be with my emotions. That affects the entire experience. Unfortunately, to open up your emotions with sex - even with your husband means vulnerability. I could probably do him, but I don't see me ever letting him inside my soul as I did before. Sad right? But true.