In honor of I THINK I LOVE MY WIFE we sought Searchlight employees' opinions of the "Big M" -- and asked them to fill in the blanks:

* For those who are or have been married: "Marriage is ____."

* For those engaged, single or anything-but-married: "Marriage seems ____."

Starting with our singles/fiancees/other non-married's, below are the answers we received.

 

Marriage seems...

  • "Like a great idea."
  • "Like one trip to Home Depot after another."
  • "Forever."
  • "To be LOTS OF WORK."
  • "Exhausting."
  • "Like the fast track to beer bellies and rotund rumps."
  • "Like an amusement park -- you really want to go, but when you get there it's only fun for short periods of time, you spend way more money than you thought you would, and you end up just wanting out! Stick to carnivals that just roll through town. Cheaper, easier, way more fun."
  • "Unnecessary."
  • "A pipe dream for the gays."
  • "Nice but time-consuming."
  • "Permanent."
  • "Awful?"
  • "To be very difficult to make work."
  • "Like death, but with nicer linens."
  • "Great/hard/exciting/wonderful if you're with the right person."
  • "Long."
  • "Unnecessary."
  • "Like a very tired subject for sitcoms and movies."
  • "An adventure (that is scary as hell) but I hope to take part in it some day."

 

Marriage is...

  • "Really hard."
  • "Fraud."
  • "Like pizza. When it's great, there's nothing better. When it's bad, it's still pretty good. But when it's rancid, let's face it, you're gonna lose more than your lunch."
  • "Not for the selfish or ugly."
  • "Hard work."
  • "Friendship with benefits."
  • "A lot of work, A LOT of work, a lot a lot a lot of work."
  • "Like a dream come true."

What would YOUR answer be? Be sure to share it with us in the comments box below!

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wonderful if you are being sincere love for her or not hubby.if better not start, because it was like you are sending to heaven. Imdb Film

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Marriage is a life with your

Marriage is a life with your partner once the relationship .. theres no marriage is painful when you fall out of it can never tell if your man is a lover ... once you have an instinct only believe in it .. that all women have a man who has no intinct ... We can forgive our spouse, but it is not easy to forget that one .. and never remove the scars on our skin ... depends on whether we continue our relationship with them is once ... .. Enuf never fear you can not live w / or think of him only to children ...
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Marriage is a design to

Marriage is a design to perpetuate the human race to slave work for the rich. You are all suckers! Making babies...hahahaha....idiots! It's also designed to care for and pay for the elderly, Fuck'em! let them die! I don't give a fuck either way. I'll be gone soon enough. FTW!

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simple words Fuck marriage!

simple words Fuck marriage!

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Marriage is a joke at best,

Marriage is a joke at best, as a guy that filed for divorce of a cheating whore of 16 years and final hearing is 15 Apr 2008! I couldnt be more pleased!

There is NOTHING a woman could possilbe offer me to marry her, no woman on the planet are worth it! Some men just need marriage cause otherwise they could get sex!

Actually other than SEX I have no use for women!

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Marriage is a gift from God

Marriage is a gift from God and from it comes children. Once married, it is definitely a lifetime committment (no exceptions). Make the decision making BEFORE getting married, not afterward. With love, patience, faith and kindness, marriage is the best thing that can ever happen in a person's life.

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HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA! Awe jeez, I just have to say..hang onHA HA HA HA HA HA! That is the funniest thing I have...oh hang onHA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA! Stop it! Where did you ever come up with such a hilarious joke! It was...HA HA HA HA HA HA...

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Marriage is -weird. -like

Marriage is
-weird.
-like having a fever.
-a good way of knowing each other's worse part.

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nothing lasts forever. if

nothing lasts forever. if your marriage is based on love, as time goes by, u will come at the situation that will make u feel u are living with a bussiness family partner. Interests for each other will decrease and for others will increase and that bring us in the situation that we cheat. When we start to cheat, it is better to get divorced because u will not continue to live with partner but with servant. what evere happens i think that the best is being honest and face the truth wheather u (he/she) like it or not.

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marriage is a lifetime

marriage is a lifetime commitment to your partner once you enter to this relationship theres no fall back..marriage is painful when both of you are far away from each other you can never know if your man is have a mistress...once you have a instinct just believe in it..we all women have a intinct that man doesnt have...we could forgive our hubby but its not easy to forget it..it like a scars that never remove in our skin...it depends on us if we still continue our relationship with them...once is enuf..never scared that you cant live w/o him just think about the kids...

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Marriage is the start of

Marriage is the start of what's Life is all about...

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Wrong! Dead Wrong! Life is

Wrong! Dead Wrong! Life is not about marraige. You exist as a condition of circumstances. A result of actions by two humans beings. You did not ask to be born. Life is about making use of the time you have before you die. If you commit to marraige, you lose your freedom. You lose a portion of your decision making capacity. You lose this freedom to responsibility, to companionship, to societal morays. You cannot live as you want when co-habitating in a dwelling with a partner & offspring. There will be demands made of you. You cannot explore the world freely when tied down. Do not marry unless you want to pass on your genetic code and enjoy family framework. Genuine sex ends after 6 months of marraige. Women are not good for anything else other than intercourse, and most are just lousy at it. You have a 72% chance of infidelity occurring during the lifetime of the marraige. That being initiated by the female partner.

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I'm not sure why I agree,

I'm not sure why I agree, but I really really do.

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A MISTAKE!!! Don't do it!!!

A MISTAKE!!! Don't do it!!!

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Marriage is patience. Love

Marriage is patience. Love unconditionally.

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Wrong! Marriage is an

Wrong! Marriage is an attempt to MAKE something work. Marriage is a process which determines who is triumphant in the POWER struggle. Marriage is never 50/50. Someone has to take charge. Less than 2% of all marriages world wide DO NOT end in divorce and last longer 20 years and are a first marriage. Within those marriages, the magnitude of animosity, turmoil, hostility extra-marital relationships is an overwhelming 70%. The remainder have percentages of couples that just tolerate each other to keep peace, in other words, patronizing. Another, portion is modestly content and indifferent with undertones of apathy. Due to possibly being extremely elderly and just looking forward to the dying day, hence "...till death do you part...", the ultimate freedom.

Yes, okay, marraige is patience. How fucking long does it take you to become understanding and compatible? Love is a transient emotion that fades away quickly. Ideally, for the emotionally healthy couples, love turns into companionship. Love is for high school kids. Romance is another component of "love" that coerces you to copulate. Love is just in your imagination. Feels real, but it's a scam. Love is an extreme form of liking someone or something. You can't continue to love something indefinitley and more than your capacity to do so because the brain becomes saturated with the neurotransmitters that make you feel it. There is a limit. You have to come down off of the "high". That is why break-ups are painfull. You lose the source of the "high", that being your partner.

You have to be a total fool to love anyone unconditionally. Living life year by year, yields wisdom you wish you had when you were younger.

A whole planet, with a circumference of 25000 miles. A wide range of animal and plant life to study. A vast array of nations to explore. Marriage just takes away oppurtunities to embark on those experiences. Try seeing the world when your in your 80's. I will never give up my freedom to live and explore for a marriage with some ungrateful, gold-digging whore. Better off paying for a prostitute. A hell of a lot cheaper and no emotional baggage.

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Marriage is a sweet thing

Marriage is a sweet thing when the rules of marriage are observed.

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Marriage is good in the

Marriage is good in the beginning then it soars as time goes by. For women your always guessing, you never know when your man has slept with another woman. You know something is not right but you have no idea how to find out and its this pain that leads to lack of sex in relationships.And you dont want to follow them because you feel you will either hurt yourself or it will be you unlucky day/week or month when he hasnt been playing around.
Another biggest worry for married women is the fact that they are always scared of getting funny diseases from their men or that a man may have children else where.
All you have to do is just PRAY PRAY PRAY!

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wonderful if you are being

wonderful if you are being love sincerely by your hubby.if not u better not to start it because it was like you are sending yourself to heaven.

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Love is blind... Marriage

Love is blind...

Marriage restores sight

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Marriage is for

Marriage is for suckers........................

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I think marriage is a

I think marriage is a beautiful thing, to make it work both parties need to forget about all the fairy tales, pull up the sleeves and get down to some real hard work. Do not get anything for granted, if a crack shows up work on it straigh away.

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It's not for quitters.You

It's not for quitters.You have to expect it to be very Hard Work and well worth it, because it is.

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It also involves two people.

It also involves two people. Unfortunatly you can't trust anyone. ANY FUCKING ONE! No matter how hard you work/try/stay faithful there is always the other party who will turn on you at any moment.

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MARRIAGE SEEMS SCARY BUT

MARRIAGE SEEMS SCARY BUT WORTH THE TRY. IT IS LIKE EVERYTHING ELSE: MAKE THE MOST OF IT...ENJOY IT WHEN IT'S GOOD AND HANDLE IT WHEN IT'S BAD...IT'S A COMBO DEAL...REMEMBER 2 WRONGS DON'T MAKE A RIGHT!! SO EVERY ONCE IN A WHILE SOMEONE HAS TO KISS IT & MAKE IT BETTER. IT'S A ROLLERCOASTER...DON'T FORGET!! OVERALL WONDERFUL. A SUCCESS IF U HANG IN THERE...COMPENSATING. WHAT DO U DO WHEN LIFE THROWS U LEMONS?....(SHOULD SAY: LEMONADE!!!!) THAT IS WHAT U DO WITH MARRIAGE. ACHIEVEMENT IN ITSELF. VERY REWARDING. & FULL OF SURPRISES.

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wonderful when you're in

wonderful when you're in LOVE and Stressful when you fall out of love

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When I was in elementary

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i agree MARRIAGE IS

i agree MARRIAGE IS Wonderful!!!! Stressful when you want it to because YOU choose to fall out of love. Why not try doing something new and different everyday for your sweetheart? See, when you really LOVE someone there's no room for falling out of love...on the contraire, it makes you find more ways to keep it up and going. communication is the key!! so why choose to stress??? Go ahead and make a fool of yourself FOR your sweetie ONLY...it is part of being in LOVE. Don't deprive yourself the chance to be happy in love. no inhibitions!!! say it and do it!!!

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