marriage is a lifetime commitment to your partner once you enter to this relationship theres no fall back..marriage is painful when both of you are far away from each other you can never know if your man is have a mistress...once you have a instinct just believe in it..we all women have a intinct that man doesnt have...we could forgive our hubby but its not easy to forget it..it like a scars that never remove in our skin...it depends on us if we still continue our relationship with them...once is enuf..never scared that you cant live w/o him just think about the kids...