You are so right. It is easier to quit than it is to try. Men are missing the keys of being the lead, but yet yielding to God. Some are not sensitive enough for a woman's needs.

Women are missing the keys of not being submissive to God so they cannot be submissive to allow the husband to lead. Some are too head strong and will not let their guards down (especially some coming from a single parent home).
-we all must allow God to teach us how to be one rather than society, for he is the one that designed us all.