naw... do not look at that way. I look at as a new journey with someone that is exciting, loving, and to share life with. I love the idea that my husband and I are there for one another especially during the roughest times in life. The serious stuff that we deal with in life, especially loss of a loved one or material possessions that are necessities; having him by my side makes it all worth while. If we pray for God to guide us to our mate, you will be hooked up with the person you were destined to be with. Although you will have troubled times, your love for one another can grow with time and also overcome any hardship (love conquers all).