I'm not an overweight person but i have friends who are and personally their as human as all of us are. "Sometimes it's not the car size but the color you can see through it." I've always thought that if your happy being overweight well Amen to that, but if your not do something about it. Noone has the right to put others down because of what they look like. One should always be looked at for what & who they are. I mean i've seen overweight people shake their ass better than us so called healthier ones; I've also heard some men prefer them heavy size, when it comes to real action. So girlfriends don't feel wrong about your size just be you.